Friday, December 05, 2008
What is your question?
In situations where you will not get much seat time with these people it is worth your time to identify before hand, what is your question. Practicing outloud before hand will help clarify your thinking and delivery.
Not only will your results be better, you will be viewed as someone who can think clearly and quickly. The natural ability to do this on the fly will grow over time.
Asking for help
A good skill to have in life is knowing what you know, and knowing what you don't know. Asking for help doesn't show a lack of intelligence, it shows you know yourself and aren't afraid to ask a question so you can learn and move on.
Asking for Advice
"Give the person something to chew on, something that leads to a conversation."
Many people (myself included) instead of using this technique will just state where they are going and how they plan to get there, and then ask for the other persons thoughts. This method doesn't leave an easy open for a discussion to begin if you don't know the person your talking to very well.
By giving the person something to chew on, three potential routes for example, you give the person an easier avenue to participate and help (which most people want to do).
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Blogging as a form of mentoring
I am a strong believer in the power of a good mentor/mentee relationship. As cliché as it sounds, a good mentor helps the mentee connect-the-dots. The mentee has a goal but often has an unclear or ill defined path to get there. A mentor is someone that has already traveled down a similar path the mentee is going, and can help the mentee understand a) what direction to go and b) how to fill those gaps.
I have been following a handful of blogs over the past five years or so. In addition to finding the informational content that I was searching for, I gained insights on how to move forward along my own path, i.e. using blogs as a form of mentorship.
The blog I have read the most Brad Felds (www.feld.com) and am currently on the look for good entrepreneur , business development, and CEO blogs.